Why do people do things to hurt the people they love? Why do they do it thinking they won’t get caught? Then when they do instead of apologizing, or trying to do something to make the other feel better, they sit there.
Why do people have conversations asking others to change, but they won’t bother to change anything themselves? Maybe those people need to look at how they haven’t changed and realize their own behavior is partial to blame for the pain that the other is going threw.
Relationships are all about trust, and when trust is broken, feelings break down. The feelings you want to be experiencing get pushed aside and the feelings of sadness, forgotten, and other hurtful feelings come forward, and then that is all the can be focused on.
Don’t ask me to try harder, if you wont’ even bother. Don’t ask me to do something differently, if you are still going to do the same sick things you always do.
